Recruiting
Despondency
I have discouraging contemplations too once in a while and have on thought on the best way to change that.
To avoid despondency, you can simply start communicating with different people and thus distract yourself a little. Any dating site will help you with this. I advise you to read the flirt review so that you can understand what kind of dating site you need. Don't waste your life on despondency, friend!